Feeling Good

As we continue the conversation with my friend who’s looking for a potential mate, he asked a follow up question.

When your wish involves another person - how does it work when they do not wish for the same thing? I wouldn’t want the relationship if it was not a mutual wish of course - which is probably impossible anyway. I guess that’s why I would be apprehensive about wishing for a specific individual. Last but not least - is it wise to get carried away with your excitement for someone - or should you make sure to get to know them well enough first to make sure their personality and character matches what you would desire in a partner? … Perhaps my real question is this: Is it ok wishing for the “perfect” relationship with a specific person and during those thoughts, picture the specific person the way you hope they are - or will be? OR - would you think you get better results if you focus on one or the other - relationship or specific person!??

Law of Attraction says that you get what you think about and that your positive emotions are what activate and speed the manifestation. So, whether you realize it or not you will ultimately put more energy into one or the other of your desires at any given moment and thus you will create that first.

Think about it. You’ve just met someone who you are interested in and you think, “Hmmm, I like this person and I feel myself getting excited.” So time passes and you decide that this person is the one you want a relationship with so that’s where you place your focus. As you get to know the individual you begin to see signs of who that person is “in the now” and, maybe even without realizing it, you begin a dialog with yourself that goes something like, “Well, I can live with that flaw, its really not that bad.” or “Wow, I don’t know about this person after all but since I am still excited about the possibility, I’ll give it some time.” The reality is that either of those responses represents a change in the desire that you are asking for. So does that mean you can’t manifest both the specific person and have that person be everything you want him to be? Not at all, but you could potentially find that the two desires may not manifest at the same time.