Relationships and Law of Attraction - Part 2
March 24, 2007 at 11:58 am (Items for personal growth, Law of Attraction, Relationships)
In a previous post, I offered the first part of a response to a friend who asked how specific he should be when creating a vision board for attracting a potential mate. The following is the second part of my response:
Now, with all that said, if what you really want is a relationship with a specific person, then post that person’s picture on your board and don’t think about anyone else. Make copies of that picture and your own and put them on top of those “happy couples” you found so that you can see the two of you together! Be a kid again and pretend the two of you are already a couple! Imagine you are both lying on a blanket under the stars and that there’s no place that either of you would rather be! While you are imaging this, FEEL the FEELINGS just like you were there in that moment! It’s the desire coupled with the emotional intensity that really speeds up the manifestation. So, desire it, feel it, believe it, and you will see it!
Should you decide you want to take the route of building a relationship with a specific person, you should be aware that this approach can be more difficult to bring to the point of the manifestation. That’s not because it’s “harder” than the other but only because of the fact that we, in physical form, have a hard time waiting for the results of our desires. When we desire a relationship with a person that is already in our experience, we often have difficulty feeling the feelings for any length of time while receiving nothing in return. The frequent result is that we give up on it before it has time to manifest.
Dean said,
April 22, 2007 at 4:37 pm
Hi Clyde,
As much as I enjoy reading your blog, I see this particular post uncomfortable for me for the following reasons:
1. The Universe will provide what is best to match our desires in the quickest and easiest way.
2. If we focus on a specific person, who has their own desires and wants seperate from our own, then we hindering the Universe’s ability to provide the true desire of warmth, love and companionship. By desiring warmth, love and companionship, then the universe is free to match us up w/ the best and most appropriate person to meet that desire.
3. As a student of metaphysics, we learn that imposing our WILL or desires upon another person is a “no-no”. Yes, it can be done, but this crossing the line into what the occult world refers to as Black Magic. Something I suggest to be avoided for karmic reasons.
As nice as it is to want someone and however we believe that we want some one specific, I have always had better “luck” with writing out the description of the TYPE of person I want than the specific person.
Just my thoughts on this subject.
For more of my thoughts, please visit:
http://www.lawofattractionforbeginners.com
Sincerely,
Dean
Clyde said,
May 1, 2007 at 8:16 am
Hi Dean,
I just noticed that your comment above had been marked as spam and I just approved it for view. My intention for this blog is to create open communication about LOA and, as such, I don’t want to censor the comments so please don’t think that was why it didn’t show up.
I have been following your blog for a while now and appreciate your thoughts. I know we all have different paths and as a result each of us brings something different to the table.
Thank you for your comments and please accept my apologies for not catching this sooner.
Amanda said,
July 1, 2008 at 3:03 pm
Hi there,
I liked your blog.
I just wanted to say that I think all the free will arguments are overrated.
No one really has free will.
We all have to breathe to live, live until we die, and eat food to survive. Nothing changes that.
With that said, all we have our choices in resonse to things that happen to us.
We are constantly influenced by people and outside circumstances.
For example, I don’t choose who I love. I don’t choose who I am attracted to. It just happens.
When my heart is broken, and I am grief-stricken, I don’t magically choose to not feel those feelings, and fall out of love.
I don’t choose what I look like, what family I’m born into, how much wealth I inherit.
So, that is why I think the free will argument for influencing a specific person to fall in love with you via the law of attraction or love spells is over-rated.