Relationships and Law of Attraction - Part 1
March 23, 2007 at 12:16 pm (Items for personal growth, Law of Attraction, Relationships)
A friend who’s somewhat new to Law of Attraction recently indicated to me that he had created several vision boards for himself including one oriented toward finding someone significant. He had used generic pictures of “happy couples” and was wondering if he should use the picture of the person he was hoping to build a relationship with or if he was better off keeping it generic.
The following is the first part of my response to him:
As for your question, the Law of Attraction says that whatever you ask for is what you get. So, the question back to you is, what is it that you really want? Do you want a relationship with a specific person or is what you really want the feelings associated with said relationship?
If what you really want is to feel the way you think being in a relationship would make you feel, then I challenge you to feel that way about yourself first. For instance, if you want to feel loved, cared for, and protected, then love, care for, and protect yourself first for it will only be then that you will attract what you want — you will be thinking about (attracting) feelings of love, care and protection and you will draw to yourself other people who will feel the same way. Further, you may be surprised to find that once you realize you can create those feelings yourself, you may not feel as large a need to receive them from someone else. That’s not to say that the desire to share your life’s journey with someone is a bad thing or in any way something you shouldn’t want. You may just find that as you learn to feel that way about yourself, you will think differently about many things and your interpersonal relationships will definitely be among those items.
NAATUL said,
April 20, 2007 at 12:36 pm
You got some nice posts on your blog. I personally am very much into using LOA for my relationship, not just with my wife and my kids but all my family members and extended family members. I am sure that LOA works and so far it has been working wonderful for me. The reason I stopped by this particular post was that apart from other areas of the life, I really give my first preference to relationships
Thanks for this post.
Atul
Clyde said,
April 20, 2007 at 1:39 pm
Hi Atul,
Thank you very much for your feedback. I also believe that our relationships can be our greatest source of learning and growth.
I’m glad you liked the post and the site and I wish you well on your continued journey.
Clyde
Runbaker said,
April 28, 2007 at 8:36 am
The Secret Scam - A Word Of Caution.
Just a word of caution:
1) There have been many sites popping up that are selling illegal (bootleg) copies of the secret for as little as $5. People are encouraged to avoid these sites because selling bootleg DVDs is just like stealing and based on the Law Of Attraction, you don’t want to participate in that type of energy. The best places to buy the DVD is from the official site (www.thesecret.tv) or from one of the teachers. The DVDs are only $25
2) Other people reported that there was a pyramid scam selling ‘gratitude rocks’ as well, but fortunately these sites were shut down. Please don’t get this confused with the actual secret seminar site: http://www.TheSecretSeminarUSA.com.